A family torn to shreds believed they would live apart from one another until their deathbed. That was until one party, and a simple conversation revolutionized their entire worlds.
It was the early 1960’s when a young boy going by the name Dave Carlson ran to say goodbye to his little sister Cheryl. He didn’t make it there in time.
She was being adopted from the Annie Wittenmyer Home, where Carlson and his four younger siblings stayed, including her, until her new parents took her in.
Siblings Cheryl, Tom, Jim and Mary Jo are siblings. │Source: twitter.com/wcnc
A FAMILY SEPARATED TOO SOON
Carlson was the oldest of five children and he stayed at the orphanage until his four younger siblings were adopted.
This was a mission he had taken upon himself after His grandmother will be his promise that he would look after his four younger brothers and sisters: Cheryl, Tom, Jim, and Mary Jo.
Carlson was eventually taken in by Byron Carlson, a plumber, and Corine Carlson, a nurse. Officially far away from the orphanage and in a new home, the young boy was probably never going to be able to see his siblings again.
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These kids ended up at the Annie Wittenmyer Home after their single mother dropped Carlson and two siblings off an aunt, taking the other two with her.
After she didn’t return when she said she would, the children’s grandmother told Carlson to go back to his mom’s apartment in Grinnell, Iowa, to get some clothing, where he found a tragic scene.
Jim, about 2 years old at the time, and Mary Jo had been abandoned and left to fend for themselves. Carlson, 64 years old, shared his memories of the event:
“It was hot as hell, and the whole place stunk to high heaven. They hadn’t eaten.”
The mother refused to return her children and instead left them with the orphanage.
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Dave Carlson grew up and moved to Goodland, California, became an all-state football player, and fought in Vietnam.
One time, he returned to the orphanage to search for information about his siblings who had died. However, it was unsuccessful. However, in 1990, this all changed at a party in Jasper County that the second eldest, Jim, now Jim Bush attended.
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Jim began speaking to someone about his adoption and life story, mentioning his older brother, to which someone exclaimed that he knew Carlson. They immediately connected with each other. He spoke about their meeting. :
“I’d always driven a Dodge truck…And there he was, driving one the same color of mine. I smoked Marlboros. He smoked Marlboros. We both love horses.”
Although they tried to find their siblings, the brothers couldn’t get any luck. Their sibling, Tom Crew’s wife, Cindy Crew, took an interest in finding out more about her husband’s origins.
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She eventually connected him to Carlson through a Public Library in Grinnell, which is the area where he and their siblings were picked up from the apartment.
After another beautiful reunion, the trio got hold of an individual specializing in missing person investigations, Jim McDonald, asking him to help find their long-lost sisters.
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Using a lead from a social worker’s letter written about the five siblings’ case, he could locate Cheryl and Mary Jo.
Both women flew up to reunite with their brothers on separate occasions – the fabulous five back together and hopefully never to be split up again.
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Being separated from one’s brother and sisters can sometimes be excruciating, as Tessa Ferguson can attest. In the early 1970s, She, her four other siblings and she have torn apart. This followed a fire in their childhood house that killed their parents.
She was finally adopted and chose, after many years, to let go of finding her siblings; Dena, Frank, Rebecca (Becky), Tessa, and Rae Lynn. However, one day her father-in-law called her and told her that a woman named Dena was looking for her.
This is how she reunited with not only Dena but the rest of her siblings. Unlike many of us, Carlson and his brothers and siblings and Tessa and hers understand the importance of sibling bonds.